Isn't weird how we can confuse feelings of:
- The Love of genuinely liking someone
- The Regret of a missed opportunity / sense of loss
- The Fear of being alone
Yes, emotions are complex - they are not binary and they are not stand-alone. That makes it difficult to evaluate them in a vaccum.
But sometimes it is really a 当局者迷 kind of thing... you really need someone who have been through this to offer a different perspective, especially when you are someone who is not constantly 'in the game'.
Really happy to talk so much with a good friend for an entire evening. Super thankful for his advice and sharing of his own experience.
Felt so much better and relieve.
Somehow I already feel that I am on the way to getting over this.
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