I didn't thought of myself as such a person until recently. That day I was doing this "personality test" and I belong to this category of people, and one of the main traits of this kind of people is that they'll hold grudges. All the other characteristics were quite true, but I don't agree a lot with this one.
But maybe I'm wrong. Guess I don't understand myself that well after all... or perhaps in the past, no one ever offended me so much until I have to hold a grudge against that person? Heh...
It was until some time ago that I realized I am like this... wouldn't say it's a bad point or what... think it's just a way to protect yourself.
There's this saying call "有恩必还，有仇必报". But I don't think I will be so extreme until I want to take revenge or whatever crap... but I will never forget it if that person deal enough pain to me. On the other hand, I will definitely remember and return someone kindness.
Sometimes, it's sad when you are accused of something you didn't do. If I do something wrong, then I will definitely admit my mistake. But it feels so bad when you are doubt of your character.
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